Long time anon here. I know this is not really the place for vent posts, and I'll be chewed out for bothering to have emotions on this board, which is probably why I'm posting.
I'm one of the few lucky furries to have been in a stable committed relationship for almost 2 decades, but something happened recently, and it's looking more and more likely that that might all come crashing down. About 2 months ago, my SO came out as trans, and since then they've managed to turn every discussion into them, their identity, and their feelings. When I try to share back, I'm stonewalled as if my feelings are insignificant. I dealt with this for a while, but they started going more and more off the deep-end every week. They started going to fetish clubs, and have even insisted on wearing fetish gear at work. They now communicate almost entirely with other transfolk, and have really isolated themselves from any of our normal social circle.
They have forbade me from being involved in any of their social activities or groups, and have recently taken to nitpicking every little thing I do or don't do. It seems as if they are trying their hardest to push me away, and from my knowledge a lot of their friends have told them really bad advice about how their identity as a transperson/kink-lifestyler is the most important part of their life, and that if I'm not cool with stuff like them wearing fetish gear to the office, then I'm a bigot and a kinkshamer.
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